I'm sure you've been any where from school, the mall, even church and seen a young teenage mother or about to be mother. In these days and times teen age pregnancy isn't rare or even shocking in the matter any more. Some people try to find an excuse for this somewhat of a phenomenon by blaming it on media and other peoples parenting skills. Me personally I do not have any children of my own but have quite a few friends who do or will be soon.
Today young people are having sex more than ever. Most people say that its bad parenting or the media. I say that isn't true because I know teenage parents who are straight A students and even Very religious ones. Face it every one now adays has sex before they graduate from H.S. With some individuals sex is part of their daily routine. Some have sex out of curiosity, some have sex because of love, and some have sex because of boredom. (these are facts ppl)
Who the hell are people to tell some one that they aren't going to be a good mother or a father. I hate when i hear some one down teenagers when they are just doing the same exact thing that grown ups are doing.
My Argument
(My argument for Teenage Parents)
Why would you tell a 16 yr old mother she isn't ready? HUH? Why not spend your time making sure that you help educate her on how tobe a mother since you are so smart? Oh and why tell them that there life is over? What is that all about? You must not have a life if you have time to tell someone their life is over. Plus a baby is the beginning of life so wouldn't that mean their life has just started a new chapter. And honestly why does the fact that they are TEEN AGED PARENTS any different from them being GROWN.I know a handful of teenage mothers and fathers that do a way better job at being a parent then their own or then Most grown parents.
(My argument for the Opinionated Public looking in)
Yes i do believe that having a child should wait until at least your twenties.
I believe teenage pregnancies mostly a result of irresponsible behavior.I believe if you don't have even at least a source of income better yet a strong relationship you shouldn't be having unprotected sex period. If some one tells a teenage parent that they aren't ready its most likely that that teenager has yet to show enough responsibility or maturity that would install faith into a person making the accusation.
In the end i believe that pregnancy in any age is a blessing and something to look forward to. There is always abortion (which is murder) and adoption.
I myself will like to say If you are a teenage parent or were a teenage parent i am proud of you for your sacrifices and heart not to kill your unborn.
And to the mothers you are so brave and selfish less, sacrificing your bodies and risking life to give birth to the next generation i thank you for being brave.
And to the Fathers ( who take care of theirs) You are a rareness in today's modern world. I respect you for being their regardless of your relationship with the mother. I believe that a child having a male role model helps in development but there is still things and a type of love that only a fathers presence can bring.
I end this with a couple videos for you to look at and don't forget to comment,follow, and visit artisticcompilation.com daily.
(My argument for Teenage Parents)
Why would you tell a 16 yr old mother she isn't ready? HUH? Why not spend your time making sure that you help educate her on how tobe a mother since you are so smart? Oh and why tell them that there life is over? What is that all about? You must not have a life if you have time to tell someone their life is over. Plus a baby is the beginning of life so wouldn't that mean their life has just started a new chapter. And honestly why does the fact that they are TEEN AGED PARENTS any different from them being GROWN.I know a handful of teenage mothers and fathers that do a way better job at being a parent then their own or then Most grown parents.
(My argument for the Opinionated Public looking in)
Yes i do believe that having a child should wait until at least your twenties.
I believe teenage pregnancies mostly a result of irresponsible behavior.I believe if you don't have even at least a source of income better yet a strong relationship you shouldn't be having unprotected sex period. If some one tells a teenage parent that they aren't ready its most likely that that teenager has yet to show enough responsibility or maturity that would install faith into a person making the accusation.
In the end i believe that pregnancy in any age is a blessing and something to look forward to. There is always abortion (which is murder) and adoption.
I myself will like to say If you are a teenage parent or were a teenage parent i am proud of you for your sacrifices and heart not to kill your unborn.
And to the mothers you are so brave and selfish less, sacrificing your bodies and risking life to give birth to the next generation i thank you for being brave.
And to the Fathers ( who take care of theirs) You are a rareness in today's modern world. I respect you for being their regardless of your relationship with the mother. I believe that a child having a male role model helps in development but there is still things and a type of love that only a fathers presence can bring.
I end this with a couple videos for you to look at and don't forget to comment,follow, and visit artisticcompilation.com daily.
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